“You’re a shopper. You shop. You’re good at that. You’re meant for that. This applies both to shoes & men…don’t give up and buy shitty shit because you need it temporarily. Wait for the quality. Shop around. Pick things up and put them back. Return if necessary. Keep shopping. You’ll fall in love eventually.”
Quote from a best friend.
Admirable qualities for the man I want to find…
Applications available upon request. (Jobless, heartless, untrustworthy, liars need not apply).
Qualifications are rather
simple complex, sorry.
…dreams of a decent man.
Must enjoy trying new things and having new experiences. This is broad but get OVER it and get under it. Be open and don’t close yourself out to things that you aren’t comfortable with.
Must understand my need/bug to travel – anywhere and anytime. And understand that I’ll spend whatever amount of $ I deem necessary to do so. And that he should as well, obvi.
Constantly growing and learning and being awesome. Never settling.
Food lover <3 – likes to try new places and going out to restaurants frequently. Also must be a healthy eater and put up with my strange/specific food diets.
Can hang and drink but does not need to go out every single night. By that I mean 4 + nights per week.
Active. Likes to exercise. Do outdoorsy things. So like, don’t be too lazy.
Likes to shop a little. Dresses well without trying too hard. And buys me nice shit (although unnecessary because I buy myself nice shit).
Has good friends. Likes to include me in things with their friends. AND willing to do fun things with my friends. And actually likes my friends. A lot.
And makes me happy.
“Spend all your time and your money, just to find out that my love was free…”
Likes to do nothing sometimes.
Is competitive in a good way.
Can deal with my ridiculous family. Enjoys his family.
Has a job he enjoys and isn’t miserable at. Makes a fab salary with growth potential. Has goals and sights for the future. Includes me in them.
Thinks I’m pretty.
Will hang out with me even if its playoffs football season and I don’t want to watch. (I will – this is a trick question). 😉
Will fight with me but not argue to make me lose.
Is honest and has no reason to lie about anything. Ever.
Will trust my opinions because they’re always right. Right?!
Knows how to make a cocktail.
And will occasionally allow me to dress him.
Also likes champagne.
Doesn’t lie. Did I already say that?
Smells exceptionally great.
Nice abs wouldn’t hurt. Or arms.
Mutual level of respect.
CAN MAKE ME LAUGH. At any given moment. Even when I’m fuming and all I want to do is scream or run.
…Dreams of a decent man.
Take a look at what Brad Pitt has to say on Angelina – mostly the ending part. I don’t know if I really like this – but I kind of like it. I don’t necessarily believe that a man has the power to completely change a woman. Or that she is a total reflection of him – but when it’s of a positive image, positive things can happen. And I like that. The ending is what makes it amazing.
Until then, I won’t go chasin’ waterfalls –
I’ll be doin’ me, right over here. xo
This is an endless list. I don’t know why I’m posting it today. I wrote this 3 months ago. #latergram.